After the Christmas holidays, many people face various challenges—ranging from minor inconveniences to significant emotional, physical, and financial struggles. These can include anything from mild feelings of disappointment to more serious mental health concerns. Reflecting on the common difficulties that arise after the holiday season, I came across several resources (with clickable links) that offer support for those dealing with post-holiday blues. I hope you find them helpful.
Common Problems
Post-Holiday Fatigue: After the excitement and busy schedules of the holidays, many people feel physically drained. This can be attributed to disrupted sleep schedules, increased food and alcohol consumption, and stress. Statistics: According to the National Sleep Foundation, nearly 50% of adults report sleep disturbances during the holiday season, which contributes to fatigue.
Financial Stress: The financial strain of gift-giving, travel, and holiday events can leave people feeling stressed or anxious about their budgets post-holiday. Statistics: A 2023 survey by the National Retail Federation reported that Americans planned to spend an average of $886 on holiday shopping, which can lead to debt anxiety afterward.
Weight Gain and Eating Habits: Overeating during the holidays, combined with a lack of exercise, often leads to unwanted weight gain, which can make people feel physically uncomfortable or frustrated. Statistics: A study published in the New England Journal of Medicine found that the average person gains 1-2 pounds during the holidays, but this weight is rarely lost.
More Serious Concerns
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): The shorter days and colder weather of January can trigger depression in many people, especially in those with a history of depression. The lack of sunlight can affect mood, leading to feelings of sadness or hopelessness. Statistics: The American Psychiatric Association estimates that about 5% of people in the U.S. experience Seasonal Affective Disorder, with the condition typically beginning in the fall and peaking in winter.
Post-Holiday Depression: After the high of the holidays, some individuals feel a deep sense of loss, loneliness, or sadness. This “holiday letdown” is common and can sometimes lead to more serious depression, especially for those already struggling with mental health. Statistics: According to the Journal of Clinical Psychology, 10-20% of people experience significant depressive symptoms after the holidays.
Grief: For those who have lost loved ones—particularly around the holiday season—the post-Christmas period can intensify feelings of grief and loneliness. This can be exacerbated if the holiday celebrations highlight the absence of the person. Statistics: A survey by Grief Recovery Center found that 35% of people who have lost a loved one report feeling more intense grief during and after the holiday season.
Financial Trouble or Debt: Following the season of heavy spending, many face serious financial strain. The post-Christmas bills, combined with the pressure of buying gifts, can lead to overwhelming stress or even debt. Statistics: According to Credit Karma, over 40% of people in the U.S. report they still carry holiday debt well into the New Year.
Domestic Violence Post-Holiday Period: The holiday season can heighten domestic tensions, and unfortunately, domestic violence incidents often increase in the weeks following Christmas. Factors such as financial stress, substance abuse, and unresolved family conflicts can contribute to a rise in abusive behavior. Statistics: Studies indicate that domestic violence reports often spike after major holidays, including Christmas. For instance, the National Domestic Violence Hotline reports a noticeable increase in calls during January. According to a study by the Journal of Family Violence, financial strain is a significant predictor of post-holiday domestic violence incidents, with 65% of victims citing financial stress as a contributing factor.
How to Bounce Back from Christmas Blues
Physical Health:
- Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity can boost endorphins, improve sleep quality, and reduce feelings of depression. Even a short daily walk can make a difference.
- Healthy Eating: Returning to a balanced diet after indulgent eating habits can help restore energy levels and improve overall mood.
Mental Health:
- Routine: Establishing a healthy routine (such as regular sleep patterns, work, and social activities) can help stabilize emotions.
- Stay Connected: Reach out to family or friends. Talking about how you feel or sharing the post-holiday experience with others can provide comfort.
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practices like yoga, meditation, and deep breathing exercises can help manage stress and improve mental clarity.
Professional Help:
- For individuals experiencing more severe symptoms, professional counseling or therapy may be necessary.
Help for Major Problems
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD):
Treatment: Light therapy (exposure to bright artificial light), psychotherapy, and medications like antidepressants may help manage SAD.Organizations:The SAD Association offers resources and support for those struggling with this condition.The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) provides information on treatment options and finding mental health professionals.
Post-Holiday Depression & Grief:
Counseling: Therapy can help individuals process emotions and develop coping strategies for dealing with post-holiday blues. Organizations: The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (988) is a resource for immediate support for those struggling with depression. GriefShare offers support groups and resources for those grieving, particularly during the holidays. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) provides resources for managing mental health after the holidays.
Financial Strain or Debt:
Debt Counseling: Non-profit credit counseling agencies can help people manage post-holiday debt. Many offer free services, like budgeting and debt management plans. Organizations: National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) offers resources for those struggling with debt. Consumer Credit Counseling Service (CCCS) provides support for individuals dealing with holiday-related financial stress.
Domestic Violence: Resources and Help Available: Emergency Assistance: Call 911: For immediate help, especially in life-threatening situations. Hotlines:National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text “START” to 88788. This hotline provides confidential support and connects individuals with local resources. Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN): Provides support for victims of sexual violence. Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) or access their online chat. Shelters and Safe Spaces: Organizations like Women’s Shelters USA provide shelter and immediate support for victims of domestic violence. Many local communities have domestic violence centers offering confidential housing and resources. Counseling and Legal Aid: The National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) offers legal resources, safety planning, and connections to therapists specializing in trauma. Free legal aid organizations in many regions help victims obtain protective orders or navigate custody disputes.
While the post-holiday period can bring minor irritations or more serious mental health challenges, understanding the common issues and knowing where to turn for support can make a significant difference. By taking small, proactive steps like returning to a healthy routine, seeking professional help, and utilizing available resources, people can bounce back from the Christmas blues and work toward a happier, more balanced new year.
Thanks for writing this, Denny. It’s filled with vital information.
Thanks, Karen. Surprising how many don’t know what resources are available.